A Psychic's Tips For Manifesting Love
Are you looking to manifest love into your life? If you’re reading this article, it’s a sign your soulmate is close. When they’re on your mind, they’re coming into your energy field. Beyond that, in this post we cover over a few steps to help draw in your next meaningful love. Photo of two people holding up mussel shells in the shape of a heart by Aaron Burden on Unsplash
Updated 2022.03.08
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The first fifteen years of my adult life feels like it has been dedicated to finding love and manifesting more love into my life, in the form of romantic relationships, friendships, and even work relationships.
Since I started this spirituality website, which has a foundation on consultations, I’ve also worked with others through the steps they needed to accomplish to bring love closer or back into their life.
Spirit does gravitate those out of your life who don’t support your highest life path to bring in more of those who do.
Still, it is you who has to be willing to let those people go and set boundaries so that more of the love you want can find room and space to blossom in your energy field.
Your manifestation of love is near when you are thinking about it, so just being here is a sign that a soulmate is close and hovering in your energy field. And there are things you can do to draw him or her closer.
Outside of mesmerism, if you are looking for a romantic soulmate, a friend soulmate, a life partner, or even just a kindred spirit to do and grow in business with, following a few of the steps below can help direct your course.
Hence, you are in even more significant alignment to find those that you need that can support and honor your highest mission on earth, to serve with joy and love, and bring abundance to all you love.
So without further ado, after giving many consultations on this topic, I've whittled down a few life changes and themes that can bring love towards you, faster than you ever hoped and dreamed.
6 Essential Tips for Finding Your Soulmate
A soulmate can be a life partner, your forever person and they’re out there. They exist. Forever Scrabble Letters Photo by Gabby Orcutt on Unsplash.
#6 Walk away from proving why you are lovable to anyone
If someone loves you, he or she loves you.
If you find yourself convincing your partner why you are a good partner, if they can’t see your beauty, that’s a red flag. It’s usually not you.
It's often that person can’t see the beauty in anything, and their negativity and negative thoughts are shadowing their ability to see yours, or they are too patterned by their environment to see other’s light.
You often see other people who aren’t able to see a person’s light coming from families that never gave compliments or offered verbal support.
The good news is that most people can retrain themselves, you just have to ask yourself if you have a person like this around if a person is willing to wait on.
If you do decide to train someone to see the love and know they are worth it, the majority of people start reflecting the training you offer within 2-3 years.
Outside of that, to attract a soulmate, you do have to give up convincing others why you are lovable. Generally, a soulmate sees your value immediately and gravitates towards it.
So to find one, intend to hang out with those whom you immediately click and find and expand your social circle so you can connect with those you can click.
Have a group or a single person who you’ve been trying too hard to convince to hang out? Someone you’ve been trying to relate to for years?
Generally detaching, if even temporarily from these people and redirecting your attention to finding kindred spirits, puts you in touch with more significant opportunities to meet any type of soulmate on this earth you could ever desire.
Think of detaching from those you've had to convince to love you like a mission you are going on, it may not be a permanent journey where you leave everyone you love but doesn’t respect you behind, but maybe you try going out on a limb for a year or two.
This can give time to those who didn’t show you respect before, to see your light. Some people can only see the beauty in something that is very far away from them, and it is only up close where they see the flaws.
Similar to the way everyone loves an old castle from afar.
Up close, you can see the peeling paint and the shredded wood, but those who love castles look past those things and see the true essence of greatness of just about any magnificent work of art, including you.
#5 You may be given ‘bad’ partners for a reason
Release any blame from prior relationships. We learn what we want in life, primarily by learning what we don’t want first.
We often learn by experiencing the contrast of what we want. Some people, including myself, don’t know what they want until they know exactly what they don’t.
I used to have a friend that said this is because what we don’t want is so minimal, and what we do want is so vast. It helps to know the exceptions and exclusions first before things get serious.
I happen to believe and have heard from Spirit many times that Lightworkers, such as you, reading this blog, are sent to dark people and places to act as Angels on Earth as inspiration.
Do you know what happens in old movies?
People don’t realize the Angel was an Angel until they left, or if they do, it’s the child who notices or maybe the dog, while everyone else is caught up in their drama, they don’t see all the synchronistic things that happen when the Angel is around.
Putting the puzzle pieces together can be a challenge until after the fact, and sometimes love-seekers get sent to situations where love is lost to bring it about.
Then, they leave or get pulled away through a series of mysterious circumstances that force no other choice, getting out just in the nick of time. At that time, they get delivered to another situation where love can be.
I've seen this happen so many times, more than I believe possible by chance.
Some people are Earth Angels who earn their wings.
So if you have come from a negative environment, it is possible Spirit has sent you there to learn the markers of what love is not, so you can better identify what it feels and looks like when it is.
In Spirit’s eye, having a string of poor partners doesn’t mean you’re bad at finding the right one or failing at relationships - it could merely mean that you needed to identify all the things you didn’t want first, so that when the right one does come along you know with all fiber of being.
This way, your soulmate is more easily spotted and less likely to be let go once you do find them.
#4 Look for whom resolves the fight
In all relationships, at some point, there is conflict; it’s what builds character, makes a good story, and provides the fuel for internal growth.
Are you always offering the first olive branch of peace?
Are you always the solution maker?
Always being the first to make-up is a tell-tale sign, the relationship is imbalanced, and you are giving far more than you are receiving.
If your partner routinely waits for you to do the mending, it is time to move along; soulmate connections are often about equal balance, giving and receiving.
Think about the last three months of your life.
Who has offered you a solution you can use? It may be someone you just met, or it may be someone you have in your life you previously didn’t notice much at all.
Start gravitating towards those other solution makers, and soon, you'll find yourself in a relationship where there is a higher level of balance and support, as this is a soulmates job, to offer you support for your soul to grow.
#3 Look for equality in a mate
Love is about an equal balance of giving and receiving. All circumstances may not be equal, but over time, the amount that you are receiving from your soul partner should be equal to how much you give.
If your mate is offering equal to you in your bond, they’re your soulmate. If you have people in your life who are not offering when you are reaching out, these would be people to gravitate away.
Start pulling back here, and invest more into the supporters, even if you just try it for three months and see what happens.
Are you always helping your partner out with money while they sit on the couch? Are you continually offering creative ideas for their business, with no input or interest shed on your endeavors?
Finding your soulmate is about locating the person who balances you out, gives where you need to receive, and receives where you need to give if you are doing all that in any relationship, time to start to pull away.
In some cases, people who were your soulmate for a while stop growing in the direction you are growing, perhaps you were guiding them to a certain point, and they’ll then take it from here.
If you notice a decrease in matching over a sustained time, it’s okay for you to energy match with the same and start investing in other areas.
#2. Take on some soul searching
Your soulmate is the person who is a match to your most authentic self. Most people have more than one, and they can fill different shoes in your life. Most people have a soul group.
I know lots of people stop at a life partner or someone to be with them for a large chunk of years, but I say, why stop there? Why not continue seeking until your soul group is reunited?
When you come back to you, and start investing in your soul, frequently, this inspires and lights people up around you, and it attracts others who want to live the same way as you.
As you return to you, even if you're coming back to it for many years, others who want to live the same way as you, who want to go where you’re going, are your soulmates for this leg of the journey.
Think of Dorothy in the Wizard of Oz.
You are taking the journey to Oz when you step on this path of returning. Others do show up to go along with you.
They may not look like you, they may not have the same career as you, they may be a different gender or age, but if you like them, if there's a spark, let them join you. It’ll make the soul searching way more fun and wondrous if you do.
Are you living in alignment with whom you dream of being? Want to meet the person who matches your soul?
Start finding out who you are as a soul, step onto the yellow brick road one foot at a time, and as you unreel the layers, you align closer and closer to the date of actually meeting him/her.
Usually, Spirit allows this to happen quickly, within the first few months of you aligning back to your soul, especially if this is what you've been praying for.
Relationships may develop fast or slow, but you'll be able to feel when one kindles. They may not all be romantic, but all are just as fun and have much to offer.
Do you meet someone who makes you laugh on the first day of a conference? Someone who wants to call you and talk to you? Someone who compliments you? Look for these markers, and if you need to take it slow, take it slow.
True soulmates take things at precisely the pace you desire because they desire the same.
Eventually, they push your boundaries and encourage you to expand, but when a genuine soulmate relationship rekindles, both parties go the speed they each have wished.
#1. Ask oracle cards to help you stay on track
One of the things I have found that helps in knowing if I’m still on the right path is consulting oracle cards. An oracle deck can connect you to Divine Guidance.
Checking-in with a card deck on what you need to be doing to move closer and closer to meeting your soulmate can help you stay tuned into your goals, and it can even be fun.
Working with cards can help keep you in alignment with your real mission, in this case, finding the one(s) who loves you back.
When it finally came time for me to meet my last soulmate, this worked for me. I had done a weekly card reading for myself, and for the first time, I pulled the soulmate card.
In disbelief, I pulled cards every morning that week and each time, the soulmate card appeared.
It was after about a week of pulling soulmate cards, I interacted with my new partner for the first time, and though I didn't realize it right away, it didn’t take me long to figure out what was happening and the oracle cards cued me in.
The cards have done the trick each time I needed to stay focused on a goal.
For oracle cards, I suggest any divination deck called an oracle deck for finding love, where affirmation cards and tarot cards I like for other things. Choose one whose art speaks to your soul.
To recap, to find a soulmate
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#6
Ask the cards to help you stay on track, use daily divination for motivation to keep going
#5
Take on some soul searching, step onto that yellow brick road today, be on the lookout for odd friends and companions who step into joining you along the way, if you like them let them stay
#4
Seek equality in a mate, someone who matches your zeal
#3
Look for whom resolves the fight, someone who seeks to understand not to be right
#2
You are given ‘bad’ partners for a reason, know faulty partners can help you earn your wings and identify love faster
#1
Walk away from proving why you are lovable to anyone, move towards those who see your light instantly
How can you know when your soulmate is near? When you are desiring them, they are. Wondering how to find your soulmate? Or how to attract your soulmate? Photo of two people holding up mussel shells in the shape of a heart by Aaron Burden on Unsplash with text overlay - 6 Essential Tips for Finding Your Soulmate in work, love or friendship.
Finding your soulmate is one of the primary questions asked in readings and energy healings.
The wishing, seeking to find someone to be an object of our love, is a universal wish and desire, along with money, purpose, and health.
You may have to go outside your bubble and find new groups to hang out with to rub elbows with your new mate or those who can connect you with them.
If you try out a group a few times, maybe three, just like dating and there are still no sparks, time to move on, and go to your next adventure in seeking love and joy.
Take these steps, and when you find the ones that work for you, and get validated by Spirit, they'll lead you closer to things, people, and experiencing a world that loves you.
You may look back in seven years, after following any of the tips above, even just one and notice yourself in a completely different life where the world loves you, and you can feel it.
In turn, you'll become a person who loves the world back and attracts many a someone specific in the world to be the funnel of that love.
After you attract one soul friend, called a soul mate, it gets easier and easier each time, and you can use these steps to be a beacon for manifesting anything, even more soulmates in other areas of your life.
If you are starting with seeking love, just know these steps above can be used to find new colleagues, business partners, and friendships.
If this is your twentieth time back to the drawing board, know you aren't alone. Spirit has most people return to manifesting love and joy in their lives every couple of years, especially if they’ve significantly advanced in their life or career.
This helps you recalibrate and adjust your values to what you learned, each time you reach a new level.
So consider bookmarking this post, these ideas, or others similar for the future, as you may come back to them after you’ve advanced to your next level, to get you even higher in love during the next phase of life.
And hopefully, soon one day, when you tell the story of how you found love, all question if they believe it because it is just too full of miracles that the physical world can't contain its wonder.
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