A Psychic's Tips For Manifesting Love
Updated 2025.06.19
Wondering when your soulmate is near?
While the universe does work in mysterious ways behind the scenes, there are ways you can draw your soulmate in closer to you.
In this post we discuss how to find your soulmate -
The first part of my adult life was dedicated to finding love and manifesting more love into my life, in the form of romantic relationships, friendships and even work relationships.
Even the first psychic reading I ever had was geared towards finding and attaining long term love.
Since I started this website, I’ve also worked with many others through the steps they needed to accomplish to bring love closer or back into their life and the advice Spirit has given has followed some trends.
When you are seeking to align to love, keep in mind…
Spirit will use the power of energy vibration to release those from your life who no longer support your path so you have room to welcome in those who do support your path now.
Keep in mind your path is always evolving, to the people and things you need in it to support you can often change.
Still, you need to be willing to let situations that don’t serve you anymore go - this isn’t about forcing a change, but you can often tell when paths are diverging.
Your manifestation of love is near when you are thinking about it a lot, so finding this blog is a sign that a soulmate is close and getting closer to your energy field.
There are things you can do to draw him or her closer.
So if you are looking for a romantic soulmate, a friend soulmate, a life partner or even a kindred spirit to grow in business with, following a few of the steps below can help direct your course.
So without further ado, after giving many consultations on this topic, I've whittled down a few life changes and themes that can bring love towards you.
6 Essential Tips for Finding Your Soulmate
#1 Walk away from proving why you are lovable to anyone
If someone loves you, they love you and will be able to easily find lovable things about you.
When another person who claims to want to be with you, has trouble seeing your lovable qualities, it is likely their own negativity or negative thoughts clouding their ability to see anyone in a positive light.
Perhaps their family was highly critical or they grew up in a situation where things were taken for granted.
The good news is that most people can retrain themselves, you just have to ask yourself if you have a person like this around if a person is willing to wait on.
If you do decide to train someone to see things in a more loving way and know they are worth it, the majority of people start reflecting the training you offer within 2-3 years.
Generally, though, a soulmate sees your value immediately and gravitates towards it.
You won’t need to force things with your soulmate - the relationship will unfold naturally.
Many times, in soulmate relationships, the parties meet once and they are inseparable from there.
The goal though is to detach from drawing blood from a stone in terms of love.
There are some people who don’t have the love to give and may not be able to see your light.
Even if there’s soul growth you can do to align more to your highest light, your soulmate will be able to see this and will not need convincing of your value. You will not need to beg.
#2 You may be given unfit partners for a reason
Release any blame from prior relationships.
We learn what we want in life primarily by learning what we don’t want first.
We often learn by experiencing the contrast of what we want.
Sometimes you don’t know what you want until you know exactly what you don’t.
Knowing what you don’t want in a relationship, through the experience of these things, can help you identify and clarify what you do.
So even partnerships that aren’t a good fit can be useful in guiding you to the ones that are a better fit.
Relationships that don’t work out can help you refine what you’re truly looking for, making it easier to spot when it does appear.
#3 Look for people who offer solutions
Your soulmate is going to want things to work out with you so they will often suggest answers to conflicts when they arise.
They will seek harmony and balance with you, and this means that whenever there is a disagreement, you will not be the only one looking to make amends.
The person who is your soulmate will be interested in resolutions to differences of opinions when they arise and they will be willing to overcome difficult emotions to find peace with you again.
Soulmate relationships are collaborative and both people will make an effort to stay in the situationship.
If you are always the one offering the olive branch or reaching out for connection, this may not be a soulmate relationship.
#4 Look for reciprocal love in a mate
Love is about an equal balance of giving and receiving.
All circumstances may not be equal, but over time, the amount that you are receiving from your soul partner should be equal to how much you give.
If your mate is offering equal to you in your bond, they’re your soulmate.
If you have people in your life who are not offering when you are reaching out, these would be people to gravitate away from.
You are looking for reciprocal love.
If you feel like you routinely give more than you receive, this may not be a soulmate relationship.
Your soulmate may not give back to you the same way you give to them. They may have another way of giving where you need to receive.
#5. Take on some soul searching
Your soulmate is the person who is a match to your most authentic self.
You can have many soulmates, but whether the focus is finding one or a group, they will align to your highest and greatest expression of being.
To draw your soulmates in, you want to focus on finding what lights you up, what brings you joy, what inspires your passionate, creative side.
The more that you can align with the light of your soul, the easier it is for your soul tribe to find you.
Something you can do every day is seek to take one action that brings you joy.
Put time in on a hobby or craft, give some of your attention to a passion project, a new toy or side quest.
#6. Ask your Spirit Team to help
Once a day, check in with your spiritual side through meditation and/or prayer.
During your daily quiet contemplation time, think about what it will feel like to find your soulmate.
Feel the emotions that you will have when you find this soul person.
Ask for assistance from your Spirit Guides and Angels for finding this person and then following the inspired nudges you receive.
To recap, to find your soulmate:
Walk away from proving why you are lovable to anyone
You may be given unfit partners for a reason
Look for people who offer solutions
Look for reciprocal love in a mate
Take on some soul searching
Ask your Spirit Team to help
Finding your soulmate is one of the primary questions asked in readings and energy healings. It’s safe to say it’s a Universal Wish.
You may find yourself in new places, hanging out with new people, experiencing new things as part of your journey towards more love and that’s part of it.
Remember to soak in the love that you do receive along the way and appreciate it in all forms that it does appear.
The forms of love that do appear on your soul mate journey won’t always look exactly how you expect, so I find it helps to keep a mindset of “this or better.”
Don’t give up if it hasn’t happened yet. Love is out there for you and you can find it.
Hopefully, one day soon, when you tell the story of how you found love, you’ll be able to use it as a testament to your faith and continued hope that dreams can come true.
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